Tuesday, December 11, 2007

THAT'S IT !!!!!!!!

Who can forget watching "Charlie Brown's Christmas", as Lucy sat before Schroeder's piano and asked him to play Jingle Bells? He enthusiastically played very intricate and moving renditions of Jingle Bells. Lucy listened very carefully, but did not hear Jingle Bells. Schroeder, exasperated, finally pecked out, note by single note, J- I-N-G-L-E -B-E-L-L-S, J-I-N-G-L-E -B-E-L-L-S !!! Lucy suddenly cried out loudly "THAT'S IT !!!!"

I thought of that the other day as I received my lector list. When we were a small parish, a simple list came out with everyone's duties on it. It was easy to read my assignment. Then we were closed and 'merged' into our larger parish and a new system was introduced. I received a small bundle of papers with the names of all who served, read, greeted and gave communion at all three masses. That was very nice, but I almost had a headache by the time I had found my name in the sea of data.

Wait, there is a compliment coming ! The new system of notification was quite elaborate, and quite confusing. I would sigh each time I would start to sift through the data. A couple of weeks ago I opened a thin envelope and found a single page of names titled "Transfiguration of the Lord Parish, Chapel Lector Ministry Teams" and loudly cried, "That's It!" Not only was the sheet direct and easy to follow, but it was an acknowledgment that there was no sin in allowing the "Chapel" to exist as an entity. All I could keep thinking was, "Was that so hard?"I was thankful that someone had realized that somethings had been made more difficult than was needed. Why did almost everything have to be revamped to accomodate the 'new' parish? When in reality, the two parishes that were twinned long ago, (Salem is considered by many to have been 'squeezed' out) coexisted in a simple fashion. Becoming larger doesn't necessitate creating an institutional feel.

Someone sent me an excerpt from 'The Master Stroke', and highlighted that when many businesses focus on growth, they often crowd out their concern for providing better products to thier customers. "For many businesses today, diversification, risk aversion, and mergers are the easiest route to keeping Wall Street happy. " One man, on the night he decided to become the president of the company, made a list of the qualitites he would have to possess to do the job well enough to keep his self respect.

Must keep temper--always--never get mad.
Be considerate of my associate's views.
Dont' talk to much--let others talk.
Don't be afraid to admit that you don't know.
Dont get emmersed in the detail--concentrate on big objectives.
Make contacts with people in the industry --and keep them!
Make a sincere effort to understand labor's viewpoint.
Act--get things done--move forward.
Be just: straightfoward: invite criticism and learn to take it
Above all else be human--keep your sense of humor--learn to relax.

I think my friend was trying to point out that Transfiguration Parish does not have to be managed as a large institution. (It may even have less people attending now than it did when St. Peter's and St. Mary's were twinned?) Sincere and constant interaction between those in charge and the people of the parish will produce meaningful dialogue. Meaningful dialogue produces insight. Insight produces understanding. Understanding produces cooperation. Cooperation builds structures that will last a lifetime.

When management plays simple notes that help the listener recognize the music, the ensuing reaction is both enthusiastic and meaningful. THAT'S IT !!!

7 Comments:

At December 12, 2007 9:05 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Bravo!!!!!!
Keep it simple. Isn't that all that was needed from the get-go?

 
At December 15, 2007 7:57 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Why do we always make things more complicated. The simple things in life are the best. I was involved with a mission that did a lot of good things. We put on retreats, helped with prayer services, helped with pilgrimages ect. There were so many people that were there giving of their time, talent and money. I saw many miracles come through the gifts of these people. No one was being paid and everyone was giving freely with the gifts they had. Then one day the person in charge decided to turn the mission into a business. He hired people to run the gift shop, others were hired to raise money and still others to over see the retreats and pilgrimages. They still wanted others to donate their time, but we soon learned that the focus of following God changed to making money. They stopped giving to others and began selling to make a profit. They even started to sell candy as a money maker. Soon the volunteers were pushed out of any dicision making because we were focused on God not the money. There was a young girl that lived in a house close to the mission. Her house was in such bad shape that the snow would blow into her bedroom and cover her bed. Her parents did not want this child, they counsiderd her to just be in the way. This girl would come into the mission on a daily basis and the people there would feed her, cloth her and even helped educate her. Then when it turned into a business the girl and her friends were told they should not hang around in the store because it was bad for business. The one volunteer took this girl under her wing and helped raise her.I have stayed in touch with these people and last weekend my wife and I were able to help celebrate the marrage of this young girl, now 21 years old. What a beautiful girl she has become.I was also able to talk to many of the other people that had been volunteers at the mission. What was really sad was that not one person on the paid staff came to the wedding.I guess there was no money to be made there. We have to keep God as our focus and not let money or our ego rule our actions. We need to rethink what happens when we remove volunteers and replace them with paid staff that are told what to do and how to do it.Lets let go and let God lead us to his loving arms in this Christmas season. God Bless!!!!!!!

 
At December 18, 2007 9:48 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dan is so right, this is what happens when finances become more important than family. There is another F word that could be used to sum up this fine mess we seem to be in.
Oh my! What were you thinking?

That's what happens when others jump to conclusions about the motives of their neighbors without bothering to have dialog, assuming to know what is best for someone else.

FAITH

Thats what is missing.
Faith in the members of this community and their own spiritual ability to be leaders, teachers. role models and good stewards.

Faith
Family
Finances

If the first two are in the prpoer order the last will take care of itself. Sadly the $ sign has become the god of the world. Our true God will be difficult to find in a world where $$$$$$$'s have taken the place of the sign of the cross.

 
At December 22, 2007 6:51 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Proverbs 15:22

"Plans fail when there is no counsel, but they succeed when counselors are many."


I look around at the former parishes, and I don't see many people who are really obsessed with trying to run a church. What I see are many people who wanted to share their experiences to help the parish. But alas, they are treated as if they are foreigners in their own homes.

It's kinda like like a newly hired baby sitter who keeps interupting the parents as they try to tell her about their children before going out for the evening. Their information and insight are dismissed by the sitter as she informs them that she has an early childhood education degree and will do what is best! She can handle any situation. What could they possibly tell her about their children that her professors hadn't taught her about children in general?

The best care for the child would be for the child care provider to understand that her role is temporary. She shoul not dismiss the input of those who have taken care of the child for years, and will continue their commitment to the child for many years to come.

Yes, Chelle, faith in the members of this community would be refreshing.

 
At December 25, 2007 11:26 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

F Following the example of Christ

A Action motivated by our love

I Intuition that comes by grace

T Trust in God

H Holiness


May the force Be with You!
Merry Christmas!

 
At December 27, 2007 7:54 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Be the change you want to see!

 
At December 27, 2007 10:35 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hmmmmm..........."Be the change you want to see." I need a little follow up on that one. I am not sure what Anon meant.... (Dialogue is important you know.)

My initial response was to smile and softly respond with, "I have changed. I will continue to change." You know, I have never been against change. Change happens. (The how's and the why's make me ask questions.)

I have listened to many Christmas songs this season. (The traditional favorites, O Holy Night and Away in a Manger, always lead my into the quiet.)But the one that has led me into numerous reflections lately is a modern one .....with the line, "Last Christmas I gave you my heart, the very next day, you gave it away. This year to save me from tears, I'll give it to somebody special."

I suppose that that line may make me pause because, maybe I have been giving my heart to a lost cause? Maybe the institution doesn't really want nor need my heart. But Christ does. Maybe this year, to save me from tears, I'll give it only to Him. Maybe I'll be the change that 'He' wants to see. And it probably has nothing to do with the Transfiguration Parish.

 

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